{"id":1503,"date":"2021-02-27T19:49:35","date_gmt":"2021-02-27T19:49:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/toolkit\/non-violent-communication\/individual-level\/nvc1-2\/"},"modified":"2021-08-21T06:59:24","modified_gmt":"2021-08-21T06:59:24","slug":"nvc2","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/toolkit\/non-violent-communication\/individual-level\/nvc2\/","title":{"rendered":"NVC2"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-page\" data-elementor-id=\"1503\" class=\"elementor elementor-1503\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6ec2dee elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-stretched elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6ec2dee\" data-element_type=\"section\" 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elementor-element-dca1deb\" data-id=\"dca1deb\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-01e6691 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"01e6691\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f2f9ddf pp-heading-fill-solid elementor-widget elementor-widget-pp-fancy-heading\" data-id=\"f2f9ddf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"pp-fancy-heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"pp-fancy-heading\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"pp-heading-text\">\n\t\t\t\t\tTINY Monsters\/Demons \t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cd560e2 pp-heading-fill-solid elementor-widget elementor-widget-pp-fancy-heading\" data-id=\"cd560e2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"pp-fancy-heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"pp-fancy-heading\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"pp-heading-text\">\n\t\t\t\t\t(or maybe not that tiny)\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/h3>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-1fff5c9 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1fff5c9\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-3259887\" data-id=\"3259887\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5e72a70 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"5e72a70\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Tiny demons or monsters is a metaphor for the fears we carry on in many different situations of our lives.<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-edeb032 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"edeb032\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\">The FEAR is not more than a projection in the future of a past personal experience or something someone told us and, that includes not only your family, friends but Netflix, HBO and Prime Video.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">When we face our FEARS, we can generate ways to work with them alone or with others.<\/p><p class=\"p1\">Playful, generative conversation unfolds.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-b281e66\" data-id=\"b281e66\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2043d43 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"2043d43\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/miro.com\/app\/board\/o9J_lTyhhsE=\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"910\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/monster-910x1024.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/monster-910x1024.jpg 910w, https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/monster-267x300.jpg 267w, https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/monster-768x864.jpg 768w, https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/monster.jpg 1296w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 910px) 100vw, 910px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element 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class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a78c8d3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a78c8d3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ol><li class=\"p1\"><strong>What do we fear?\u00a0<\/strong><\/li><li class=\"p1\"><strong>How can we use that fear as a way to discover what to do next?\u00a0<\/strong><\/li><li class=\"p1\"><strong>To engage the ideas\/skills\/energy of those around us in those next steps?\u00a0<\/strong><\/li><li class=\"p1\"><strong>What is it you fear about _\u00a0(the focus of interaction at hand)<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-eebda9d elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"eebda9d\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-9782c2f\" data-id=\"9782c2f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c64e35d elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"c64e35d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/GUIDE.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/GUIDE.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/GUIDE-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/GUIDE-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-785a3d1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"785a3d1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\">Invite everyone to start then turning the images in each box into separate demons or monsters. You can encourage them to add eyes, ears, teeth, horns, wings, claws, and other attributes\u2026 or just leave them abstract. (4-10 mins)<\/p><ol class=\"ol1\"><li class=\"li1\">Once the demon drawings are complete, turn back to the list of fears, concerns and doubts. Invite people to match the items on their list to the demon drawings. You might prompt: Which fear corresponds to which demon?<\/li><li class=\"li1\">Invite them to label (and creatively name) their demons based on the matching. (1-2 mins). Playful, generative conversation unfolds.<\/li><\/ol>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-53888f3 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"53888f3\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-0dfda60\" data-id=\"0dfda60\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-028fdcb elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"028fdcb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Next step options<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4972ab7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4972ab7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\"><i>Milling to share demons with a partner, practice describing, notice similarities and differences (4 mins, milling at will or with bells) or in a more structured gallery walk.<\/i><\/p><p class=\"p1\">Invite everyone to select a single demon\/monster that they need to befriend or at least see differently. (1 min)<\/p><p class=\"p1\"><b><i>Take a clean sheet of paper and draw that demon a second time, but this version makes it dancing. Prepare for spontaneous and contagious giggles (2-4 mins)<\/i><\/b><i>.\u00a0 Set up the gallery in the room or in MIRO board or any board you use.<\/i><\/p><p class=\"p1\">Do <b>15% solutions<\/b> for your next step in working with\/dancing with your demon.<\/p><p class=\"p1\"><b>The sequence of Steps and Time Allocation<\/b><\/p><ul class=\"ul1\"><li class=\"li1\">First, alone, each person generates his or her own list of 15% Solutions. 5 min.<\/li><li class=\"li1\">Individuals share their ideas with a small group (2 to 4 members). 3 min. per person and one person at a time<\/li><li class=\"li1\">Group members provide consultation to one another (asking clarifying questions and offering advice). 5 to 7 min. per person and one person at a time<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b4abadd elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"b4abadd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">WHY? Purposes<\/h2>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cde6f5d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"cde6f5d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"p1\">\u00a0<\/p><ul class=\"ul1\"><li class=\"li1\">Move away from blockage, negativism, and powerlessness<\/li><li class=\"li1\">Have people discover their individual and collective power<\/li><li class=\"li1\">Reveal bottom-up solutions<\/li><li class=\"li1\">Share actionable ideas and help one another<\/li><li class=\"li1\">Build trust<\/li><li class=\"li1\">Remember unused capacity and resources (15 per cent is always there for the taking)<\/li><li class=\"li1\">Reduce waste<\/li><li class=\"li1\">Close the knowing-doing gap<\/li><\/ul><p class=\"p1\"><i>Troika consulting on demons\u00a0<\/i>Debrief if needed (2-10 mins)<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>TINY Monsters\/Demons (or maybe not that tiny) Tiny demons or monsters is a metaphor for the fears we carry on in many different situations of our lives. The FEAR is not more than a projection in the future of a past personal experience or something someone told us and, that includes not only your family,&hellip;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/toolkit\/non-violent-communication\/individual-level\/nvc2\/\" class=\"\" rel=\"bookmark\">Read More &raquo;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">NVC2<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":1473,"menu_order":3,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"elementor_theme","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"on","footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-1503","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1503","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1503"}],"version-history":[{"count":17,"href":"https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1503\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2633,"href":"https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1503\/revisions\/2633"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/1473"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ivetagr.org\/acced\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1503"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}